Yale Professor: Top Protocols To TRANSFORM Your Emotional Intelligence (& Your Life)

Rich Roll

15 sept 2025

Episode description

Dr. Marc Brackett (@MarcBrackett) is a Yale professor, founder of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence, and creator of the RULER program reaching seven million children. We discuss emotional regulation, the difference between emotions and feelings, being an emotion scientist, and more. READ MORE👉 http://bit.ly/richroll936
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CHAPTERS
00:00:00 Intro
00:00:47 The Need for Emotional Education
00:06:37 Defining Emotions, Feelings, and Moods
00:10:12 Impermanence of Emotions
00:11:44 Why Emotions Matter
00:13:56 Meta-Emotions: Feelings About Feelings
00:15:52 Emotional Intelligence: Recognizing and Understanding Emotions
00:22:40 Labeling Emotions & Emotional Literacy
00:27:28 Self-Awareness vs. Self-Indulgence
00:31:57 Sponsor Break
00:33:10 Emotional Resilience & Regulation
00:41:01 Expressing Emotions Safely
00:45:23 Mental Health and AI
00:48:24 The Problem with Developing Emotional Skills for People
00:52:42 Emotion Regulation Formula
00:58:49 Permission to Feel & Uncle Marvin
01:02:11 Sponsor Break
01:04:59 The Parental Approach to Emotions
01:07:46 Co-Regulation and Emotional Allies
01:13:45 Emotional Intelligence in Parenting & Work
01:18:12 Building Blocks and Strategies
01:19:19 The Mood Meter & Setting Intentions
01:26:04 The Meta-Moment & Cognitive Strategies
01:46:48 Social Support
01:48:37 Back to Cognitive Strategies
01:54:17 Can Too Much Self-Help Become Harmful?
01:57:40 Importance of Embracing Discomfort
02:02:06 Emotional Intelligence as Identity
02:09:25 Practice, Failure, and Apology
02:16:30 Implementing Emotional Education in Schools
02:20:58 Closing Reflections

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Episode description

Dr. Marc Brackett (@MarcBrackett) is a Yale professor, founder of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence, and creator of the RULER program reaching seven million children. We discuss emotional regulation, the difference between emotions and feelings, being an emotion scientist, and more. READ MORE👉 http://bit.ly/richroll936
✌🏼🌱 - Rich

This Episode Is Brought To You By…
On: High-performance shoes & apparel crafted for comfort and style👉https://www.on.com/richroll
Squarespace: Use code RichRoll to save 10% off👉https://bit.ly/squarespace2025
Rivian: Electric vehicles that keep the world adventurous forever👉https://www.rivian.com

Check out all of the amazing discounts from our Sponsors 👉🏾 https://bit.ly/rrpsponsors

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Voicing Change Book: http://richroll.com/vc
Clips Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/RichRollPodcastClips
Newsletter: http://bit.ly/rollcallemail

CHAPTERS
00:00:00 Intro
00:00:47 The Need for Emotional Education
00:06:37 Defining Emotions, Feelings, and Moods
00:10:12 Impermanence of Emotions
00:11:44 Why Emotions Matter
00:13:56 Meta-Emotions: Feelings About Feelings
00:15:52 Emotional Intelligence: Recognizing and Understanding Emotions
00:22:40 Labeling Emotions & Emotional Literacy
00:27:28 Self-Awareness vs. Self-Indulgence
00:31:57 Sponsor Break
00:33:10 Emotional Resilience & Regulation
00:41:01 Expressing Emotions Safely
00:45:23 Mental Health and AI
00:48:24 The Problem with Developing Emotional Skills for People
00:52:42 Emotion Regulation Formula
00:58:49 Permission to Feel & Uncle Marvin
01:02:11 Sponsor Break
01:04:59 The Parental Approach to Emotions
01:07:46 Co-Regulation and Emotional Allies
01:13:45 Emotional Intelligence in Parenting & Work
01:18:12 Building Blocks and Strategies
01:19:19 The Mood Meter & Setting Intentions
01:26:04 The Meta-Moment & Cognitive Strategies
01:46:48 Social Support
01:48:37 Back to Cognitive Strategies
01:54:17 Can Too Much Self-Help Become Harmful?
01:57:40 Importance of Embracing Discomfort
02:02:06 Emotional Intelligence as Identity
02:09:25 Practice, Failure, and Apology
02:16:30 Implementing Emotional Education in Schools
02:20:58 Closing Reflections

CONNECT WITH RICH
✩ Website - http://richroll.com​
✩ Rich Roll Podcast - https://richroll.com/all-episodes/
✩ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/richroll/
✩ Twitter - https://twitter.com/richroll
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✩ Strava - https://www.strava.com/athletes/14443?oq=rich
✩ Memoir: Finding Ultra - https://www.richroll.com/shop/books/finding-ultra/
✩ Meals - http://meals.richroll.com​
✩ Cook - The Plantpower Way - https://www.richroll.com/shop/books/the-plantpower-way-signed/
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✩ Support - https://www.patreon.com/richroll

FILMED AND EDITED BY DAN DRAKE
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NEW TO RICH?
Hi I'm Rich Roll. I'm a vegan ultra-endurance athlete, author, podcaster, public speaker & wellness evangelist. But mainly I'm a dad of four. If you want to know more, visit my website or check out these two the NY Times articles:
http://bit.ly/otillonyt
http://bit.ly/vegansglam

I LOVE MAIL! SEND IT HERE:
2630 Conejo Spectrum St.
Thousand Oaks, CA 91320

#richroll #richrollpodcast

Mindsip insights from this episode:

Differentiate anxiety from stress to manage mental health

Anxiety stems from perceived uncertainty about the future, whereas stress is caused by having too many demands and not enough resources.

Utilize feelings as data to inform decisions and behavior

While feelings are not facts, they are important data that provide evidence of something and directly impact your attention, decisions, and behavior.

Utilize "How We Feel" app to enhance emotional literacy

The "How We Feel" app is a free tool designed to teach emotional literacy by helping you plot your feelings on the Mood Meter and understand them.

Use spatial distancing to regulate emotions during difficult interactions

To regulate emotions during a difficult interaction, use a spatial distancing technique by imagining the situation as a movie you are observing rather than living.

Foster empathetic adult relationships for better adult health

New research shows that having a non-judgmental, empathetic adult figure in childhood predicts significantly better sleep, physical health, and mental health in adulthood.

Pinpoint exact emotion to uncover simple solutions

Identifying the precise emotion, such as "overwhelmed" instead of general "stress," can reveal the true cause and lead to a simple solution like scheduling empty space.

Approach anxiety to understand and strategize for emotional clarity

Instead of a signal to avoid, anxiety can be a productive signal to approach an emotion, understand why you are having it, and then strategize for the day.

Prioritize self-awareness to achieve goals over self-indulgence

Self-awareness is a gift that helps you achieve your goals, whereas self-indulgence is unhelpful navel-gazing that keeps you stuck in your feelings.

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