
Body Language Expert: “If You Get Anxious Around People, WATCH THIS!” (Command Instant Respect)
Rangan Chatterjee
15 ago 2025
Mindsip insights from this episode:
Combine competence with warmth to build trust
Relying only on your smart ideas without signaling warmth is a mistake, as competence without warmth leaves people feeling suspicious of you.
State your price confidently to avoid negotiation
Using a question inflection (raising your tone at the end of a sentence) when stating a price or giving advice signals a lack of confidence and invites others to doubt or negotiate.
Recognize contempt to predict divorce accurately
The microexpression of contempt, a one-sided mouth raise or smirk, is the single biggest predictor of divorce, with researchers able to predict it with 93.6% accuracy.
Enhance warmth and competence to reduce malpractice lawsuits
A study on surgeons found that those whose 10-second voice clips were rated lowest in warmth and competence had the highest rates of malpractice lawsuits.
Use triple nod to enhance warmth in conversations
To instantly increase your warmth, use a slow, purposeful triple nod while listening, as research shows it encourages the other person to speak three to four times longer.
Observe nose behavior to detect lies
When people lie, tissue in their nostrils can swell, causing an itch that leads them to touch, itch, or scratch their nose more frequently.
Provide nonverbal cues to reduce anxiety in interactions
The 'Still Face' experiment demonstrated that when we don't send any nonverbal cues, it causes anxiety and confusion in others because they don't know how to interact with us.
Adopt winning athlete posture to signal competence
To appear more competent, adopt the posture of a winning athlete by taking up space, using open palm gestures, and maximizing the distance between your earlobes and shoulders.
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