The Destruction & Awakening of Elizabeth Gilbert

Rich Roll

Sep 11, 2025

Episode description

Elizabeth Gilbert is the bestselling author of "Eat, Pray, Love" and her new memoir "All the Way to the River." We discuss using people like drugs, losing her partner to cancer and relapse, six years of celibacy, radical honesty, and more. READ MORE👉 http://bit.ly/richroll935
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CHAPTER
00:00:00 Intro
00:01:35 Sobriety Timeline & Earth School Metaphor
00:02:54 Writing About Addiction & Grief
00:07:51 Sex and Love Addiction: Self-Examination
00:13:01 Patterns, Shame, and Secret Lives
00:16:19 Rhea as Earth School Assignment
00:17:52 The Relationship’s Descent & Prayer for Clarity
00:23:54 AD BREAK 1
00:27:40 Idealization, Power Transfer, and Relapse
00:31:21 Rhea’s Cancer Diagnosis & Codependency
00:34:29 Markers of Relapse & No Abandonment of Self
00:37:07 Self-Awareness vs. Addictive Compulsion
00:46:05 The Blind Spot & Compartmentalized Spirituality
00:49:51 AD BREAK 2
00:55:06 Willingness, Withdrawal, and Lineage
01:01:08 Celibacy, Healing, and Amends
01:05:59 Friendliness vs. Self-Love & Dalai Lama Story
01:11:13 Parenting the Inner Child & Self-Compassion
01:16:10 Transformative Modalities: 12-Step & The Work
01:22:34 Surrender, Higher Power, and Spiritual Practice
01:30:39 Purpose Anxiety & Presence over Achievement
01:53:02 Public Disclosure, Anonymity, and Advocacy
01:58:50 Creativity, Recovery, and Reclaiming Life
02:01:25 All the Way to the River: Intimacy & Book Title
02:06:40 Addiction Vigilance & Avoiding Triggers
02:08:52 Lessons from the Past & Trusting the Process
02:15:10 Closing Stories & Friendship
02:40:51 Shame, Transparency, and the Power of the Rooms


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Episode description

Elizabeth Gilbert is the bestselling author of "Eat, Pray, Love" and her new memoir "All the Way to the River." We discuss using people like drugs, losing her partner to cancer and relapse, six years of celibacy, radical honesty, and more. READ MORE👉 http://bit.ly/richroll935
✌🏼🌱 - Rich

This Episode Is Brought To You By…
Pique: Save 20% plus a FREE rechargeable frother and glass beaker with your first subscription 👉https://bit.ly/piquerrp
WHOOP: The all-new WHOOP 5.0 is here! Get your first month FREE👉https://www.join.whoop.com/Roll
Momentous: High-caliber human performance products for sleep, focus, longevity, and more. For listeners of the show, Momentous is offering up to 35% off your first order👉https://bit.ly/LiveMomentous2025

Check out all of the amazing discounts from our Sponsors 👉🏾 https://bit.ly/rrpsponsors

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Newsletter: http://bit.ly/rollcallemail

CHAPTER
00:00:00 Intro
00:01:35 Sobriety Timeline & Earth School Metaphor
00:02:54 Writing About Addiction & Grief
00:07:51 Sex and Love Addiction: Self-Examination
00:13:01 Patterns, Shame, and Secret Lives
00:16:19 Rhea as Earth School Assignment
00:17:52 The Relationship’s Descent & Prayer for Clarity
00:23:54 AD BREAK 1
00:27:40 Idealization, Power Transfer, and Relapse
00:31:21 Rhea’s Cancer Diagnosis & Codependency
00:34:29 Markers of Relapse & No Abandonment of Self
00:37:07 Self-Awareness vs. Addictive Compulsion
00:46:05 The Blind Spot & Compartmentalized Spirituality
00:49:51 AD BREAK 2
00:55:06 Willingness, Withdrawal, and Lineage
01:01:08 Celibacy, Healing, and Amends
01:05:59 Friendliness vs. Self-Love & Dalai Lama Story
01:11:13 Parenting the Inner Child & Self-Compassion
01:16:10 Transformative Modalities: 12-Step & The Work
01:22:34 Surrender, Higher Power, and Spiritual Practice
01:30:39 Purpose Anxiety & Presence over Achievement
01:53:02 Public Disclosure, Anonymity, and Advocacy
01:58:50 Creativity, Recovery, and Reclaiming Life
02:01:25 All the Way to the River: Intimacy & Book Title
02:06:40 Addiction Vigilance & Avoiding Triggers
02:08:52 Lessons from the Past & Trusting the Process
02:15:10 Closing Stories & Friendship
02:40:51 Shame, Transparency, and the Power of the Rooms


CONNECT WITH RICH
✩ Website - http://richroll.com​
✩ Rich Roll Podcast - https://richroll.com/all-episodes/
✩ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/richroll/
✩ Twitter - https://twitter.com/richroll
✩ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/richrollfans
✩ Strava - https://www.strava.com/athletes/14443?oq=rich
✩ Memoir: Finding Ultra - https://www.richroll.com/shop/books/finding-ultra/
✩ Meals - http://meals.richroll.com​
✩ Cook - The Plantpower Way - https://www.richroll.com/shop/books/the-plantpower-way-signed/
✩ Italian! - The Plantpower Way: Italia - https://www.richroll.com/shop/books/the-plantpower-way-italia-signed/
✩ Support - https://www.patreon.com/richroll

FILMED AND EDITED BY DAN DRAKE
https://www.dandrake333.com/

* * * * *

NEW TO RICH?
Hi I'm Rich Roll. I'm a vegan ultra-endurance athlete, author, podcaster, public speaker & wellness evangelist. But mainly I'm a dad of four. If you want to know more, visit my website or check out these two the NY Times articles:
http://bit.ly/otillonyt
http://bit.ly/vegansglam

I LOVE MAIL! SEND IT HERE:
2630 Conejo Spectrum St.
Thousand Oaks, CA 91320

#richroll #richrollpodcast

Mindsip insights from this episode:

Recognize self-awareness as a step, not a solution in recovery

You can have a deep intellectual understanding of why you act a certain way, but 'discovery is not recovery' as it doesn't stop the addictive behavior.

Recognize relapse as returning to family role in recovery

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Shift focus from purpose to presence for peace of mind

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Choose recovery to gain everything from life

Addiction is giving up everything for one thing, while recovery is giving up one thing for everything.

Challenge the notion of self-hatred as a western concept

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Release the illusion of control to overcome anxiety

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