How Relationships Heal Inflammation, Trauma, and Your Nervous
Mark Hyman
18 ago 2025
Mindsip insights from this episode:
Utilize therapy to resolve friendship struggles
Just as with a struggling marriage, you can take a struggling friendship to therapy to work through issues rather than letting it end or sitting in tension.
Identify true friends who celebrate your successes
A closer level of friendship is not just who you call with bad news, but who you can call with amazing news and they feel unbridled joy for you without jealousy.
Join lifelong support groups for enhanced health and longevity
In the blue zone of Okinawa, people are put into lifelong support groups called "moai" from birth, which is a key factor in their health and longevity.
Eliminate contempt to save relationships
According to research by John Gottman, the single most destructive behavior in a relationship is contempt, as it is a form of dehumanization.
Take responsibility for your own needs in relationships
A primary fallacy in relationships is believing your partner's job is to meet your needs, when it is actually your own responsibility to meet your own needs.
Enjoy dessert without stress to protect your health
The cortisol released from stressing about eating a dessert might be worse for your health than the dessert itself, so if you eat it, you should enjoy it.
Leverage group support for superior health outcomes
In a Cleveland Clinic study, small support groups had three times better health outcomes for the same conditions compared to traditional one-on-one doctor visits.
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