2 Words Can TRANSFORM Your Life: Ancient Wisdom Behind This #1 Bestseller

Rich Roll

Apr 7, 2025

Episode description

Mel Robbins is a renowned podcast host, bestselling author, and one of the most sought-after experts in mindset and behavior change. We discuss her revolutionary “Let Them Theory,” the paradox of control, emotional maturity, and how surrendering what we can’t change leads to true power. READ MORE👉🏾 http://bit.ly/richroll901
✌🏼🌱 - Rich

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CHAPTERS
00:00:00 Intro
00:02:52 Podcast Success
00:04:03 The Podcasting Journey
00:07:02 Intentional Listening
00:09:08 Creating a Meaningful Podcast Experience
00:10:15 The Importance of Hope in Advice
00:11:30 Relatability and Authenticity in Podcasting
00:12:18 Distilling Complex Ideas into Actionable Tools
00:15:20 Understanding Control and Letting Go
00:16:12 The Power of 'Let Them'
00:18:00 The Connection Between Control and Sobriety
00:19:27 The Significance of the Phrase 'Let Them'
00:21:32 The Emotional Impact of 'Let Them'
00:24:54 Understanding Ego and Control
00:25:14 Letting Go and Introspection
00:27:30 Three Things You Can Control
00:30:30 AD BREAK
00:34:32 Real-Life Application of Letting Go
00:37:12 Creating Space for Compassion
00:40:33 Recognizing Self-Destructive Patterns
00:41:12 The Illusion of Control
00:43:59 Taking Responsibility for Emotions
00:47:07 Lessons from Parenting
00:49:58 Redirecting Power
00:52:52 Empowerment Amidst Chaos
00:53:57 The Need for Detachment
00:54:55 Surrendering to a Higher Power
00:56:56 The Current Success
00:58:15 Message of Hope
00:59:19 AD BREAK
01:00:21 Channeling a Message
01:00:42 Authenticity in Communication
01:01:56 Being a Lighthouse
01:03:34 Art as Light
01:05:08 Timing and Readiness
01:05:39 Belief in Goodness
01:06:28 Liberation from Control
01:07:30 Family Dynamics
01:09:42 Understanding Irritation
01:10:38 Power of Calmness
01:12:12 Neutrality and Power
01:13:12 Stress Management
01:15:08 Understanding Emotional Maturity
01:16:00 Childhood Influences on Behavior
01:17:07 Work-Related Stress and Trust Issues
01:18:54 Managing Emotions and Apologies
01:20:33 Compassion for Emotional Immaturity
01:22:50 Navigating Difficult Family Dynamics
01:23:19 Parenting and Addiction Challenges
01:25:46 The Role of Choice in Recovery
01:28:59 Approaching Conversations with Compassion
01:31:27 Understanding Agency in Personal Growth
01:32:52 Pain and Change
01:33:59 Trusting the Process
01:34:01 The Power of Trust and Compassion
01:35:22 Creating an Environment for Healing
01:36:20 The Rise of Helplessness in Young Adults
01:37:23 Identifying Missing Skills
01:38:00 The 'With Them' Approach
01:39:38 The Impact of the 'Let Them' Theory
01:40:47 Gender Differences in Obsession and Control
01:43:26 Key Insights from the Book
01:45:57 The Serenity Prayer

CONNECT WITH RICH
✩ Website - http://richroll.com​
✩ Rich Roll Podcast - https://richroll.com/all-episodes/
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✩ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/richrollfans
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✩ Memoir: Finding Ultra - https://www.richroll.com/shop/books/finding-ultra/
✩ Meals - http://meals.richroll.com​
✩ Cook - The Plantpower Way - https://www.richroll.com/shop/books/the-plantpower-way-signed/
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FILMED AND EDITED BY DAN DRAKE
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* * * * *

NEW TO RICH?
Hi I'm Rich Roll. I'm a vegan ultra-endurance athlete, author, podcaster, public speaker & wellness evangelist. But mainly I'm a dad of four. If you want to know more, visit my website or check out these two the NY Times articles:
http://bit.ly/otillonyt
http://bit.ly/vegansglam

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Thousand Oaks, CA 91320

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Episode description

Mel Robbins is a renowned podcast host, bestselling author, and one of the most sought-after experts in mindset and behavior change. We discuss her revolutionary “Let Them Theory,” the paradox of control, emotional maturity, and how surrendering what we can’t change leads to true power. READ MORE👉🏾 http://bit.ly/richroll901
✌🏼🌱 - Rich

This Episode Is Brought To You By…
On: High-performance shoes & apparel crafted for comfort and style👉https://bit.ly/ONXRRP2025 Squarespace: Use code RichRoll to save 10% off👉https://bit.ly/squarespace2025
Bon Charge: Save 15% on my favorite wellness products👉 https://bit.ly/boncharge2025
Check out all of the amazing discounts from our Sponsors 👉 richroll.com/sponsors

Check out all of the amazing discounts from our Sponsors 👉🏾 https://bit.ly/rrpsponsors

LISTEN / SUBSCRIBE TO THE PODCAST
Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/rrpitunes
Spotify: http://bit.ly/rrpspotify
Google: http://bit.ly/rrpgooglepods

Meal Planner: http://meals.richroll.com
Voicing Change Book: http://richroll.com/vc
Clips Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/RichRollPodcastClips
Newsletter: http://bit.ly/rollcallemail

CHAPTERS
00:00:00 Intro
00:02:52 Podcast Success
00:04:03 The Podcasting Journey
00:07:02 Intentional Listening
00:09:08 Creating a Meaningful Podcast Experience
00:10:15 The Importance of Hope in Advice
00:11:30 Relatability and Authenticity in Podcasting
00:12:18 Distilling Complex Ideas into Actionable Tools
00:15:20 Understanding Control and Letting Go
00:16:12 The Power of 'Let Them'
00:18:00 The Connection Between Control and Sobriety
00:19:27 The Significance of the Phrase 'Let Them'
00:21:32 The Emotional Impact of 'Let Them'
00:24:54 Understanding Ego and Control
00:25:14 Letting Go and Introspection
00:27:30 Three Things You Can Control
00:30:30 AD BREAK
00:34:32 Real-Life Application of Letting Go
00:37:12 Creating Space for Compassion
00:40:33 Recognizing Self-Destructive Patterns
00:41:12 The Illusion of Control
00:43:59 Taking Responsibility for Emotions
00:47:07 Lessons from Parenting
00:49:58 Redirecting Power
00:52:52 Empowerment Amidst Chaos
00:53:57 The Need for Detachment
00:54:55 Surrendering to a Higher Power
00:56:56 The Current Success
00:58:15 Message of Hope
00:59:19 AD BREAK
01:00:21 Channeling a Message
01:00:42 Authenticity in Communication
01:01:56 Being a Lighthouse
01:03:34 Art as Light
01:05:08 Timing and Readiness
01:05:39 Belief in Goodness
01:06:28 Liberation from Control
01:07:30 Family Dynamics
01:09:42 Understanding Irritation
01:10:38 Power of Calmness
01:12:12 Neutrality and Power
01:13:12 Stress Management
01:15:08 Understanding Emotional Maturity
01:16:00 Childhood Influences on Behavior
01:17:07 Work-Related Stress and Trust Issues
01:18:54 Managing Emotions and Apologies
01:20:33 Compassion for Emotional Immaturity
01:22:50 Navigating Difficult Family Dynamics
01:23:19 Parenting and Addiction Challenges
01:25:46 The Role of Choice in Recovery
01:28:59 Approaching Conversations with Compassion
01:31:27 Understanding Agency in Personal Growth
01:32:52 Pain and Change
01:33:59 Trusting the Process
01:34:01 The Power of Trust and Compassion
01:35:22 Creating an Environment for Healing
01:36:20 The Rise of Helplessness in Young Adults
01:37:23 Identifying Missing Skills
01:38:00 The 'With Them' Approach
01:39:38 The Impact of the 'Let Them' Theory
01:40:47 Gender Differences in Obsession and Control
01:43:26 Key Insights from the Book
01:45:57 The Serenity Prayer

CONNECT WITH RICH
✩ Website - http://richroll.com​
✩ Rich Roll Podcast - https://richroll.com/all-episodes/
✩ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/richroll/
✩ Twitter - https://twitter.com/richroll
✩ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/richrollfans
✩ Strava - https://www.strava.com/athletes/14443?oq=rich
✩ Memoir: Finding Ultra - https://www.richroll.com/shop/books/finding-ultra/
✩ Meals - http://meals.richroll.com​
✩ Cook - The Plantpower Way - https://www.richroll.com/shop/books/the-plantpower-way-signed/
✩ Italian! - The Plantpower Way: Italia - https://www.richroll.com/shop/books/the-plantpower-way-italia-signed/
✩ Support - https://www.patreon.com/richroll

FILMED AND EDITED BY DAN DRAKE
https://www.dandrake333.com/

* * * * *

NEW TO RICH?
Hi I'm Rich Roll. I'm a vegan ultra-endurance athlete, author, podcaster, public speaker & wellness evangelist. But mainly I'm a dad of four. If you want to know more, visit my website or check out these two the NY Times articles:
http://bit.ly/otillonyt
http://bit.ly/vegansglam

I LOVE MAIL! SEND IT HERE:
2630 Conejo Spectrum St.
Thousand Oaks, CA 91320

#richroll #richrollpodcast

Mindsip insights from this episode:

Motivate change using the ABC loop: apologize, ask, brainstorm

To help someone change, use the "ABC loop": Apologize for any pressure you've applied, Ask open-ended questions about how they feel, and then Brainstorm solutions together.

Harness calmness to gain power in group dynamics

In any group dynamic, the most calm and grounded person has the most power because their non-reactivity disrupts the dysfunctional patterns everyone else is playing into.

Rejuvenate skin with Bon Charge red light mask in 10 minutes daily

The Bon Charge red light face mask uses red and near-infrared light for just 10 minutes a day to rejuvenate your skin at a cellular level.

Redirect your power to control your responses, not others

The feeling of being overwhelmed comes not from a lack of power, but from misdirecting your power by trying to control other people instead of your own responses.

Refocus on what you can control: your thoughts, actions, and feelings

After saying "let them" to detach, you must say "let me" to refocus your time and energy on the only things you can control: your thoughts, actions, and feelings.

Empower yourself by choosing to "let them" instead of "let go"

Unlike the phrase "let it go," which can feel defeating and powerless, saying "let them" makes you feel like you are actively taking your power back.

Utilize 'Let Them' theory to cultivate emotional detachment

The 'Let Them' theory works because the feeling of superiority it creates helps you detach from your emotions and rise above a situation you can't control.

View adults as 8-year-olds to foster compassion

Viewing every adult as an 8-year-old in a big body allows you to see their challenging behavior as an underdeveloped coping mechanism, which fosters compassion instead of fear.

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