How To Reduce Loneliness, Depression, And Distraction By Adapting Our Relationship To Social Media

Mark Hyman

Jan 8, 2024

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In today’s episode, I talk with Cal Newport, Jim Kwik, Tobias Rose-Stockwell, and Laurie Santos about the myth that social media can make you happier and why it’s actually a source of anxiety.

Cal Newport is an associate professor of computer science at Georgetown University and writes about the impact of technological innovations on our culture. Newport is the author of six books, including Digital Minimalism and Deep Work. As we dive into the topic of social media, Cal shares his expertise on how it’s impacting public health and culture in ways much greater than you might expect.

Jim Kwik is an internationally acclaimed authority in the realm of brain optimization, memory improvement, and accelerated learning. With more than 30 years of experience, Jim has dedicated his life to helping people tap into their brain’s full potential. After overcoming learning challenges from a childhood brain injury, Jim embarked on a journey with the mission to leave no brain behind, and, through his teachings, Jim inspires others to unlock their inner genius, empowering them to live a life of greater power, productivity, and purpose.

Tobias Rose-Stockwell is a writer, designer, and media researcher whose work has been featured in major outlets such as The Atlantic, WIRED, NPR, the BBC, CNN, and many others. His research has been cited in the adoption of key interventions to reduce toxicity and polarization within leading tech platforms. He previously led humanitarian projects in Southeast Asia focused on civil war reconstruction efforts, work for which he was honored with an award from the 14th Dalai Lama. He lives in New York with his cat Waffles.

Laurie Santos is a Professor of Psychology and the Head of Silliman College at Yale University, as well as the host of the critically acclaimed podcast The Happiness Lab. After observing a disturbing level of unhappiness and anxiety among her students, she began teaching a course entitled "Psychology and the Good Life," which quickly became the most popular course in Yale's history and has also reached almost 2 million people from all over the world online. Although she’s now best known as a "happiness expert,” Santos's research explores the much broader question of "What makes the human

Mindsip insights from this episode:

Reclaim critical thinking lost to technology reliance

'Digital deduction' is the idea that our reliance on technology like GPS and recommendation algorithms is eroding our natural critical thinking and problem-solving abilities.

#critical-thinking

Prioritize real-world conversations to combat loneliness

The small happiness boost from virtual interactions is far outweighed by the loss of high-value, real-world conversations, resulting in a net increase in loneliness.

#loneliness

#social-media

Embrace digital minimalism to align technology with core values

Instead of temporary 'digital detoxes,' adopt 'digital minimalism' by only using technology that intentionally serves your core values and ignoring the rest.

#routine

#values

Recognize social media's addictive design to reclaim attention

Social media apps are engineered to be addictive by providing 'intermittently arriving social approval indicators' like likes and tags, which hijacks the brain's dopamine system like a slot machine.

#addiction

#dopamine

Combat digital dementia by strengthening memory skills

The phenomenon of 'digital dementia' describes how outsourcing our memory to phones is weakening our ability to remember basic information like phone numbers or things we've just read.

#cognition

#memory

Address social media impact on teen girls' mental health

Teen girls are a particularly vulnerable population, showing increased rates of depression and suicide linked to social media use due to social comparison and amplified social hierarchies.

#mental-health

#social-media

Use '1sec' app to break addiction and reduce mindless scrolling

The app '1sec' adds a brief pause before you can open a selected app, which breaks the impulsive habit and can save you hours of mindless scrolling.

#addiction

Train your brain to crave nutritious behaviors

Your brain has separate circuits for 'wanting' (craving) and 'liking' (enjoying), but you can train your 'want' system by mindfully noticing how good nutritious behaviors feel.