
THE EMOTION DOCTOR: Control Your Difficult Feelings & STOP Negative Thoughts | Dr. Ethan Kross
Rich Roll
Mar 3, 2025
Mindsip insights from this episode:
Replenish mental energy with nature walks
Going for a walk in nature restores the limited attentional resources that are consumed by worry and mental chatter, leaving you cognitively replenished.
Shift perspective to 'universal you' for shared understanding of struggles
When making sense of a difficult experience, shifting from 'I' to the 'universal you' (e.g., 'when you get rejected...') provides distance and creates a sense of shared human experience.
Utilize rituals to regain control during stress
Performing a rigid ritual, like cleaning or organizing, can help you compensate for a lack of internal control when you feel overwhelmed by stress or chatter.
Curate a board of advisors for personal and professional support
Instead of talking to everyone about your struggles, create a curated 'board of advisors' of specific people you go to for personal and professional problems.
Coach yourself with your name for objective wisdom
Silently coaching yourself through a problem using your own name or the pronoun 'you' helps you access the same objective wisdom you would offer a friend.
Utilize mental time travel to diminish negative emotions
To reduce the intensity of a negative emotion, mentally time travel to the future to realize it's temporary, or to the past to gain perspective on its significance.
Utilize strategic avoidance as a healthy coping mechanism
Unlike chronic avoidance, strategically avoiding a problem to let time temper the emotional response can be a healthy and useful coping mechanism.
Utilize negative emotions as tools for personal growth
Negative emotional experiences are not only functional but are actually desirable tools that have helped you progress and get better.
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