"Why You’re Always Bored, Unhappy & Stuck" – Reinvent Your Life With This | Dr. K (HealthyGamer)

Rangan Chatterjee

Jun 4, 2025

Episode description

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In a world that’s never been more comfortable, why are so many people struggling?

This week, my guest is Dr. Alok Kanojia, medical doctor, psychiatrist and one the world’s foremost authorities on mental health for the gaming community. He is known online as Dr K and is the co-founder of Healthy Gamer, a mental health platform that provides content and coaching to help young people take control of their wellbeing and he’s also the author of the bestselling book: How to Raise a Healthy Gamer: End Power Struggles, Break Bad Screen Habits, and Transform Your Relationship with Your Kids.

One of the things I like the most about Alok is his competence and expertise in both western medical and eastern philosophies: he has both trained to be a monk in India and he has a Western medical degree and practices as a psychiatrist.

During our conversation, you will learn:

• Why comfort might be the greatest threat to our mental health and how the brain and mind “rust” without regular use
• How technology is rewiring our attention and what ‘doom-scrolling’ is really doing to our brains
• Why our emotional regulation is weakening and how simple acts like taking the stairs can recondition the mind
• The difference between the brain and the mind and why understanding this could transform how we approach mental illness
• Why meditation isn’t a one-size-fits-all and how finding the right technique for your brain can make all the difference
• The true meaning and essence of happiness
• The link between ancient wisdom and modern psychiatry, and why you may be the only person that is truly qualified to heal your mind.

Ultimately, this episode is an invitation to not only think differently, but to live differently, as well. Alok reminds us that healing doesn’t always require a prescription or a therapist, but it does require courage, awareness and a willingness to face discomfort.

Whether it’s choosing to take the stairs, sitting in silence for five minutes or resisting the urge to reach for our phones, each of these seemingly small acts are actually powerful tools that can help us feel calm, connected and in control. I hope you enjoy listening.

#feelbetterlivemore
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Show notes https://drchatterjee.com/561

Connect with Alok:
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https://twitter.com/HealthyGamerGG
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https://www.instagram.com/healthygamer_gg/
http://facebook.com/healthygamergg
https://www.youtube.com/HealthyGamerGG

Alok’s book:
How to Raise a Healthy Gamer: End Power Struggles, Break Bad Screen Habits, and Transform Your Relationship with Your Kids US https://amzn.to/4dHiQX8 UK https://amzn.to/4mEFRxX

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DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.

Episode description

This episode is brought to you by:
VIVOBAREFOOT: Get 20% off your first order https://bit.ly/3Hplm8m
AG1: Get 1 year's Free Vitamin D3+K2 and 5 free travel packs https://bit.ly/43FwxQl

Download my FREE Sleep Guide HERE: https://bit.ly/3OzqCap

In a world that’s never been more comfortable, why are so many people struggling?

This week, my guest is Dr. Alok Kanojia, medical doctor, psychiatrist and one the world’s foremost authorities on mental health for the gaming community. He is known online as Dr K and is the co-founder of Healthy Gamer, a mental health platform that provides content and coaching to help young people take control of their wellbeing and he’s also the author of the bestselling book: How to Raise a Healthy Gamer: End Power Struggles, Break Bad Screen Habits, and Transform Your Relationship with Your Kids.

One of the things I like the most about Alok is his competence and expertise in both western medical and eastern philosophies: he has both trained to be a monk in India and he has a Western medical degree and practices as a psychiatrist.

During our conversation, you will learn:

• Why comfort might be the greatest threat to our mental health and how the brain and mind “rust” without regular use
• How technology is rewiring our attention and what ‘doom-scrolling’ is really doing to our brains
• Why our emotional regulation is weakening and how simple acts like taking the stairs can recondition the mind
• The difference between the brain and the mind and why understanding this could transform how we approach mental illness
• Why meditation isn’t a one-size-fits-all and how finding the right technique for your brain can make all the difference
• The true meaning and essence of happiness
• The link between ancient wisdom and modern psychiatry, and why you may be the only person that is truly qualified to heal your mind.

Ultimately, this episode is an invitation to not only think differently, but to live differently, as well. Alok reminds us that healing doesn’t always require a prescription or a therapist, but it does require courage, awareness and a willingness to face discomfort.

Whether it’s choosing to take the stairs, sitting in silence for five minutes or resisting the urge to reach for our phones, each of these seemingly small acts are actually powerful tools that can help us feel calm, connected and in control. I hope you enjoy listening.

#feelbetterlivemore
-----

Show notes https://drchatterjee.com/561

Connect with Alok:
https://www.healthygamer.gg/
https://twitter.com/HealthyGamerGG
https://www.tiktok.com/@healthygamer.gg
https://www.instagram.com/healthygamer_gg/
http://facebook.com/healthygamergg
https://www.youtube.com/HealthyGamerGG

Alok’s book:
How to Raise a Healthy Gamer: End Power Struggles, Break Bad Screen Habits, and Transform Your Relationship with Your Kids US https://amzn.to/4dHiQX8 UK https://amzn.to/4mEFRxX

#feelbetterlivemore #feelbetterlivemorepodcast
-------

Order MAKE CHANGE THAT LASTS. US & Canada version https://amzn.to/3RyO3SL, UK version https://amzn.to/3Kt5rUK
-----
Follow Dr Chatterjee at:
Website: https://drchatterjee.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drchatterjee
Twitter: https://twitter.com/drchatterjeeuk
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drchatterjee/
Newsletter: https://drchatterjee.com/subscription

DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.

Mindsip insights from this episode:

Avoid traditional mindfulness to protect against trauma overwhelm

For people with trauma, traditional mindfulness can be harmful because creating a mental vacuum can cause suppressed trauma to rush up and overwhelm them.

Strengthen feet with Vivo Barefoot shoes for better joint health

Wearing wide, thin, and flexible shoes like Vivo Barefoot can strengthen your feet by around 60% in four months, which can help with issues in the ankles, knees, hips, and back.

Increase distress tolerance to combat mental illness

A low capacity to tolerate distress is a transdiagnostic root cause for many mental illnesses, including addiction and anxiety disorders.

Choose discomfort to strengthen willpower

When you choose to do something uncomfortable like taking the stairs, you activate and strengthen the anterior cingulate cortex, the part of your brain where willpower comes from.

Limit technology use to strengthen emotional regulation

Relying on technology like social media or video games to manage our feelings causes our brain to lose its own capacity to regulate emotions.

Engage your mind to prevent mental rust

The human mind and brain don't wear out with usage; they rust from a lack of being used, leading to a deconditioning of our mental circuits.

Recognize happiness as your default state of mental stillness

Happiness is our default state of mental stillness, and it's the creation of desires that interrupts this state, not the fulfillment of desires that creates it.

Practice inaction to break bad habits

The skill to break any bad habit is to practice inaction, and you can train this fundamental skill by simply practicing sitting still without reacting to urges.

Practice Gai's theorem to cultivate present focus through stillness

The practice of Gai's theorem, or holding the body perfectly still for 5-10 minutes, creates such intense discomfort that the breath becomes your only refuge, naturally forcing you into the present moment.

Utilize SSRIs to promote brain growth and combat depression

SSRIs may treat depression by triggering an increase of BDNF (brain-derived neurotrophic factor), which causes remodeling and growth in the brain over four to eight weeks.

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