
Childhood Lies Making Us Feel Lost & Empty - How To Raise Mentally Resilient Children | Dan Siegel
Rangan Chatterjee
Oct 30, 2024
Mindsip insights from this episode:
Ensure children feel seen, soothed, and safe for secure development
To raise a secure child, focus on making them feel seen, soothed, and safe, and when you fail, reliably make a repair.
Reframe your past to enhance parenting success
It's not what happened to you in childhood that determines your parenting success, but rather how you have made sense of what happened to you.
Achieve open awareness to enhance biological health
Accessing a state of open awareness can lead to measurable physiological benefits, including increased telomerase to repair chromosomes and reduced inflammation.
Practice Wheel of Awareness for pure awareness and contentment
The 'Wheel of Awareness' is a specific meditation practice that can help you access a state of pure awareness, leading to feelings of wholeness, love, and contentment.
Distinguish temperament from personality for self-awareness
You are born with an innate, unlearned temperament, while your personality is the adaptive strategy that emerges from it in response to your life experiences.
Rediscover effortless wholeness through personality journey
Our personality is a lifelong attempt to return to the state of effortless 'wholeness' that we implicitly remember from our time in the womb.
Release competitiveness as an adaptive childhood strategy
A trait you believe is core to your identity, like competitiveness, may actually be an adaptive strategy you developed in childhood that you can now release.
Recognize interconnectedness beyond individual self
The modern cultural idea that your 'self' is limited to your individual body is a mistaken identity that causes separation from others and nature.
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